Our Worst Misspelling: Not Knowing How To Put A Period

The worst spelling mistake is not made by writing, but when in life we ​​don’t know how to put an end to it. The teaching that surrounds this phrase is very valuable to us, as it keeps with it the basic point of growing.

Knowing how to close stages, cycles and relationships can be difficult mainly because it is difficult to be sure when leaving behind those people, moments or places that made us feel so good.

This “fighting for what we want until the end” is often a way of insinuating our restlessness and turning with the eagerness to launch the machine of emotional determination that helps us make the decision so difficult to be made.

Our mistake: putting three dots where there should be an end point

The old custom of putting three stitches prevents us from growing. If we don’t open the windows, we won’t see the brightness of life; if we do not leave the doors open, we will drown in the impossibility of “letting go” of the dust that prevents us from breathing.

In these cases, denial plays a fundamental role, as it reflects the very lack of courage and the scarcity of resources to attribute a negative emotional reality to it. So we strive to assert that it is a “temporary step” and refuse to pay attention to our feelings and thoughts.

The fact is that with rupture such a serious matter, it is normal to feel a certain fear of taking sides. However, when we don’t, we end up becoming harsh, unhappy, irritable, prejudiced and condemning people, which throws us into a black hole full of contradictions.

As the saying goes, half a loaf is better than nothing, but will half a slice or crumbs really sustain one’s affective life? If something doesn’t make us happy or a relationship doesn’t do us good, what kind of unity and support do we think we will have?

Let’s be realistic: if we want the good things to come in, we have to let go

“Letting go”, “letting go”, “ saying goodbye ”. Few words that symbolize great actions. More than homemade mantras, they are clear messages that remind us that it is not worth staying in a place where we become mere observers, suffering people or compassionate figures.

Don’t go where you’re not wanted and don’t stay where you’re not loved, this is a fundamental premise that needs to be worked on from childhood so that, when necessary, we assert our emotional needs and can listen to our hearts when necessary. .

We would do what we could to have reasons to keep the doors and windows open, but nevertheless, we have no choice but to put an end to where we used to put reticence. This is a behavior that we need to have to take care of our emotional health, to give ourselves due value, protect our heart and advance in life, putting ourselves as the first person when it comes to thinking about feelings.

Do not lose hope and joy, and let laziness and suffering be not your conductors. It’s true that it’s complicated (and sad) to put an end to our stories, but when that doesn’t happen, we don’t allow new and beautiful stories to enter. Do not forget:

Leaving certain places is also taking care of yourself.

Staying away from some people is also protecting yourself.

Closing some doors is also liking yourself.