People Are Defined By Their Behavior
You’ve probably been surprised and disappointed many times by people’s behavior.
This often marks a before and after for us, because we feel cheated and it’s hard to accept the disappointment.
The truth is, most people are very inconsistent, as they promise things they can’t or won’t deliver. Maybe they don’t even realize they act that way, and they say things without stopping to wonder if that’s what they really feel.
We don’t define ourselves by what we say, but by how we behave
Anyway, the fish dies through the mouth. Understand this in the sense that we can say what we want, but we must take into account if it is what we really feel and if we are going to be able to do it.
It’s a good thing we don’t define ourselves by what we say, because otherwise we would live in a world too perfect to be true. That is, perfect and fake.
The world would be very boring if we were all perfect, but we have to find a balance. Try to be as honest and consistent as possible and be careful not to hurt people.
don’t be afraid to meet people
Sometimes we form a negative image of people that doesn’t always correspond to reality. People are not white or black, they can be colored depending on the situation.
We often harshly judge the behavior of others and forget to stop and analyze ourselves. We make the mistake of imagining that our failures are lighter and more fleeting.
Do not create expectations and do not expect anything from others. People are the way they are, they don’t act the way we would like.
We act on impulse…
It’s not easy to be consistent when we get carried away by emotions. This is a possibility that is always present and threatens us at all times.
Make no mistake, we have to manage our emotions in such a way that they don’t judge us as “suitcases”. At the worst times we can lose control.
We don’t define ourselves by what we say and perhaps not even by the way we behave. We have to analyze each situation globally and not quickly become disappointed with others and with ourselves.
There’s no need to feel guilty or over-punish yourself. Avoid storytelling and building castles in the air. Don’t confuse: making mistakes is different from cheating.
