Today Is The Day To Turn Resentment Into Forgiveness

At some point in our lives, we no longer tolerate a thing or person. For example, we can no longer stand the behavior of one of our friends or family members and we are filled with resentment.

However, what happens when we don’t tolerate ourselves? When we think about how we could do that, how we decided to take that job, how we were able to eat so much.

Without being aware of it, we become our worst enemy. Something that is the result of an anger or irritation that we feel toward another person is self-defeating. A resentment that makes us not hold on any longer.

We are not happy when we are resentful. We are repressing an anger that struggles to get out, to be expressed, and thus released forever.

However, we do not realize that we are the most harmed in this case. We are the ones who will live bitterly, unhappy and continually irritated with everything and everyone.

Resentment makes us hostile

You might not notice it visually, but you’ve certainly seen people who constantly look irritated. And you ask yourself, “But why are you so angry? Wouldn’t it be better to be happy?”

That’s exactly what happens to us when we’re resentful of someone. We become hostile without wanting to, and it shows on our face.

Furthermore, hostility will bring nothing but negative things into our lives. Are you wondering why nothing seems to go right lately? Analyze how you are acting. There is the answer.

We don’t realize that hostility always comes against ourselves. This means that, in addition to affecting us, it also affects our entire environment. Those people we love the most and all our relationships will be affected by this new way we have to face each day.

Being hostile won’t do us any good. In fact, being in this hostile situation for too long can make us seriously ill.

What can we do to stop being hostile? To begin with, we must surround ourselves with positive people who convey sympathy and joy.

Sometimes we find ourselves immersed in hostility because we surround ourselves with hostile, negative, malicious people who are mentally undermining us without realizing it.

learn to forgive

When we encounter so much hostility and resentment, what we must learn, right now, is to forgive. However, not just forgiving others, but also ourselves.

As we’ve already mentioned, you are sometimes resentful and can’t stand yourself because your own behaviors are bothering you.

Forgiving others and yourself takes time. That is why it is necessary to previously eliminate some things that may be hampering this forgiveness that we seek:

• The wounds that others can cause us.
• The grudges that do nothing more than keep us from being happy and forgiving.
• Selfishness that causes sadness and prevents us from harnessing the power of generosity.

• Thinking and living in the past, something that prevents us from moving forward and moving forward.
• Worrying about gossip or worrying about what other people might say about you.

All of these things, and many others, are what cause us to live in bitterness and so that we cannot forgive others and ourselves.

We all make mistakes and we should feel free of everything that others can do to us. Do they harm you? Think that you are allowing this to happen, as it is not a physical evil. Don’t you have the power to decide who can harm you and who can’t?

Keep in mind that the less you allow others to hurt you, the more you ignore gossip and jokes, the more you live in the present without thinking about the future, the better you’ll feel.

You will be free and nothing can harm you. What people say will no longer matter, and you can live your life however you want, no matter what they say. Live your life, forgive and forgive yourself. Be free and be happy!