Every Relationship Starts With The Dialog

Have you ever stopped to think about the importance of dialogue in a relationship?

When we start a relationship, we project many expectations onto the other person and onto ourselves.  It’s our first date and we want to show our best in every way.

We want to please each other and we show ourselves to be more friendly, our kindest side… When we are in love, happiness makes us drunk and it is difficult to be angry.

the intricacies of love

The phase of flirting, passion, dating and, finally, the definitive choice of a partner stuns us a little. When we are in love, we are and we are not ourselves.

If we like this person, we hide our flaws, our differences, and this can be conscious or unconscious. We show ourselves to each other as “the ideal person”.

However, over time, we say phrases like: “You weren’t like that! You never showed that you didn’t like it! But, when we met, you…!”

Why do we act that way? We start with all the care, showing our best smile, and then we start the questions that can shake our relationship.

Dialogue: questioning with great affection

We can maintain an open dialogue about everything, even at the beginning of the relationship. It all depends on the delicacy and intelligence with which we act.

We want to get to know better this person who attracts us so much and she also wants to get to know us.

Why can’t we stay on cloud nine, feel butterflies in our stomach and, at the same time, show ourselves as we really are and make it clear what we want for our relationship?

We leave here, with great affection, some suggestions for you to talk to this person who is starting to be so special to you and with whom you would like to have a lasting relationship. Dialogue will always allow the couple to get to know each other better.

Wedding

There are many people who cannot imagine a relationship that does not end in marriage. For others, however, marriage is meaningless, and even provokes rejection.

What would happen if your partner didn’t want to get married and this was the biggest dream of your life? Or the other way around?

Knowing each other’s opinion about marriage can be very important to your future.

Sons

Having children or not is a vital decision in our lives. No one should sacrifice this all-important decision for a partner.

In fact, many relationships and marriages break up for this reason. Therefore, before a relationship becomes deeper, it is important to know each other’s opinion on this topic.

Religion

Religion can unite or separate people ; it sets a pattern of conduct and behavior in their lives.

Would you be able to get along with a person with beliefs different from yours? Ask what the other person’s beliefs are before making a more serious commitment.

Money

There are many people who attach great importance to money and cannot be happy without material things. However, there are others who prefer to work less and have more free time to “enjoy” life.

The money issue also demonstrates a way of life. Is that person’s lifestyle the same as yours?

Personality and Lifestyle

Each person is a world: there are people who are adventurous, quiet, shy or extroverted … Maybe you don’t even like getting up off the couch and your partner is passionate about rafting…

Do you believe this relationship can work? We need to find out.

You’re the only person who really knows what’s essential and what’s not for you in a relationship. Maintain a healthy dialogue with your partner and decide what is best for your future.