This Article Will Make You Reflect On Love

What happens when love suddenly appears in our lives? Where are our hobbies or interests? Is it possible for them to disappear or for them to remain? What is the most suitable?

Each of us has a series of likes, hobbies and preferences that we forge throughout our lives. Some prefer to listen to music, while others enjoy reading; there are also those who enjoy dancing or, for example, taking a walk… A whole universe of possibilities opens up for us to choose what pleases us the most.

Soon, love arrives and with it the meeting of two different worlds that feel the desire to unite by the strength of the attraction that this feeling exerts. What is the way to fit these two realities? What can we do? We present this text to reflect on this…

And suddenly love arrived

It may be that to happen as with our main character and you adore to do a certain thing, or you really enjoy any kind of sport or hobby, to the point you do not see your life without dedicating to it a few minutes …  The your routine is marked, in a way, by what you consider a passion,  and you cannot conceive of your life without it.

But suddenly, love may have come into your life unannounced, as it often does, and its entire structure has changed. What’s more, in the center of your gaze is this person who unknowingly broke all your schemes to offer you something new and wonderful to enjoy together: love.

Together you build a beautiful story full of things to share, incredible experiences and unique moments… Stuck on the effect of desire and passion, your daily life has become something different since you met.

Perhaps you no longer devote so much time to what you like or have simply forgotten it, because under the effects of “being in love” your thoughts are constantly focused on the other person and on the desire to want to spend more time with them… Passion blinded your routine for some time.

Love needs two, but without putting aside individuality

It is true that when we are in love, we are disturbed, as we tend to see the other person in an idealized way and dream of a lot of experiences and experiences in which everything seems wonderful. But you have to be careful to get down from this cotton cloud or, with time, the impact of the fall will be stronger…

Not idealizing is almost impossible when we are caught up in passion, but be careful not to stay in this permanent state, because when you realize that the other person was not as you thought, the frustration can be great and the disappointment tremendous…

Another thing to consider is that when love arises you shouldn’t try to be someone you’re not. In a relationship, we need to be authentic and transparent despite our fears. You should not stop being who you are just on the pretext of wanting to please someone else, because you would be committing a double betrayal: the first and most important with yourself and the second with the other person, in both cases you are becoming invisible.

In love, what makes you shine is your authenticity, being transparent through your eyes and being able to show the other your lights, but also your shadows… so that you can walk together hand in hand on the path that is being built. Because the most important thing is to be true to ourselves so that the other person can come to know us.

In this short film that we present below, it seems that this is one of the principles that our protagonist does not consider, and does just the opposite: hide one of his passions so that his beloved is happy and content. And you, how far would you give up for love?

In love, empathy also counts.

If we stop to think for a moment about love, maybe we can change our view of the short and relate it to the power of empathy in a relationship.

Being empathetic with our life partners allows us to capture their emotional world and understand how they feel at certain times. This will serve as an indicator for knowing how to act and how we communicate with each other. Putting yourself in our partner’s shoes will strengthen our bond with him.

As in this short film, where the hen is sensitive and sad when she learns that her companion likes eggs… No demands, simply with a small gesture, he captures her feelings and decides to put an end to her behavior, so that she don’t feel hurt…

Relationships are complicated, but that doesn’t make them beautiful. The important thing is to grow together without ceasing to be yourself, being flexible and not demanding, understanding and not rigid…