Toxic People Don’t Suit Me, So I Stay Away From Them

I walk away because I don’t agree with you, because you hurt my soul and it doesn’t do me any good. I let you go and wish you the best, because I don’t want to hold a grudge. I don’t want to be inundated with feelings that only hurt me and hurt me.

I thought you were a friend, a good neighbor, a good love or a good colleague…but eventually, as the days go by I have felt that you just add negativity to my life, and I appreciate myself, love myself and believe in me. And as they say that “love begins with yourself”, I don’t want to, I must not, and I cannot continue in your company… like a guide dog following its master.

Because at this point I understood that I don’t care what others think of me, I only care about feeling good about myself without harming anyone …so I distance myself “singing softly”…no arguments, no fights, and no misunderstandings…

Go your way and I’ll go mine. Paths that fork.

I will always respect him because respect is part of how I understand life. I don’t gain anything from bad feelings. I don’t want this for me, because it would only harden and dirty my soul…

That’s why I don’t like wars, weapons, or fighting, because someone always gets hurt… I’ll go on in peace. Then I will feel happy, and my soul will be clean and without rancor.

I just want to surround myself with what brings me happiness.

I don’t want to do anything by “commitment”. From now on, the only commitment I have is with myself: the commitment to be happy!

How to recognize toxic people?

1. You feel uncomfortable because…

2. She makes hurtful comments  about others or, often, about you.

3. She always wants to be above others.

4. Likes to ridicule or belittle the weaker.

5. Don’t listen to anyone; only your problems matter.

6. Doesn’t rejoice in the good things that happen to other people.

7. There are different types of toxic people: defeatist, melancholy, depressing, negative, cynical, gossip, catastrophic, jealous, envious, authoritarian, selfish, or they may even have more than one of these characteristics.

8. It’s manipulative.

9. Always have to be the protagonist of all conversations.

10. Doesn’t keep secrets and breaks his promises.

How to deal with toxic people?

1. Stick to the idea that someone can only harm you if you let them.

2. Keep your distance or cut off your relationship with them.

3. Don’t be fooled by their negativity; if you’re traveling they’ll talk about what might happen to you, if you start a new job they’ll say it’s not a good idea… and so on.

4. Meet new people who make you believe in human beings again ; be positive in this regard.

5. Avoid arguments and grudges that will only lead to inner discomfort.

6. Don’t let them invade your thoughts, be aware that you are occupying your mind for a long time with this person! Abandon them from within.

7. Don’t give them too much importance and use your humor; he will certainly be a good ally.

8. Know that slowly, throughout your life, you will find many people of this type : at work, in the family, in the group of friends… Don’t get carried away by them.